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Posted by binsar on 23 Nov 2007 at 02:56 am | Tagged as: Love
I thought it would be nice to post this link that can count your love compatibility up to three names. They based their test on the letters of your name and your crush. I’ve tried it and it kinda gives me a strange result. But I’m posting the link anyway in case you want to try. I’m warning you not to try it if you’re not too sure about it. You can click here, or copy and paste the link below.
http://www.secret-loves.com/index.php?test=1115709
Posted by binsar on 13 Feb 2008 at 10:32 pm | Tagged as: Love, Opinion
This page shall be dedicated to host my opinions on life and love.
Let me start with a little story of how my opinion on how love comes grew:
- First I thought love will come when you are cool, can drive a car, ride a big motorbike, play one of the sports, play musical instruments, sing, and smart as well.
- Then I considered love as a gift. If you have one, its a gift and you should cherish it. I thought I was the object and love is the subject.
- Again I shifted, I was thinking about love as an agreement. If you had the agreement, you can develop your love to your partner. If the agreement fails, then love will fade away.
- After that I consider love as work. You should work on your love and not to take it as it is. You should work on your love to make things going. You will feel tired, bored, upset, but that’s just a small part of the package of happiness, laugh, self-improvement, and a mutual partner for yourself.
- Now I am still learning. I am starting to think that pure love is an unconditional love. If you can love someone or something without hoping to receive something back then you have found what true love is all about.
As you can see, my opinion on love grows. This does not mean that the later opinion is more correct than the previous ones. I started by thinking that love is something that will be given to you, now I am thinking that you should not expect something back. Its a life learn process, and I can still change in the future.
7 July 2007
I think I need to add something on that list. A friend told me that instead of building my life around the person whom I love, why don’t I build something together to the future. I could argue her opinion but I think she has a point as well. So here goes number 6.
6. Love should be built towards a new goal in life, together, without forsaking yours or hers (maybe, I’m not 100% sure).
7. I think love works in a funny way sometimes, even in a weird situation where you least expected. The most difficult things is to be able to hold back your feelings when you know that love is not possible to go on but you can’t deny your heart and still you want to have it. IT SUCKS BIG TIME!
updated 18th September 2007
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Posted by binsar on 09 Dec 2007 at 02:53 pm | Tagged as: Love
Christmas is coming near and you can feel love everywhere and I thought why not put my favorite love songs here. These songs have their own reason to be on the list. They all have sweet and bitter memories. Here are my 20 all time favorite love songs:
1. Billy Joel – Just The Way You Are (click here for youtube link)
2. Basil Valdez – You (click here for youtube link)
3. Michael Buble – Everything (click here for youtube link)
4. The Beatles – I Will (click here for youtube link)
5. Max – Can’t Wait Until Tonight (click here for youtube link)
6. George Benson – Nothing Gonna Change My Love For You (click here for youtube link)
7. Daniel Sahuleka – You Make My Life So Colourful
8. Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Phantom of The Opera – All I Ask (click here for youtube link)
9. Lighthouse Family – Lost In Space (click here for youtube link)
10. Goo Goo Dolls- Iris (click here for youtube link)
11. The Beatles – Here, There and Everywhere (click here for youtube link)
12. Michael Buble and Nelly Furtado – Quando Quando Quando (click here for youtube link)
13. Stevie Wonder – Overjoyed (click here for youtube link)
14. Slank – Ku Tak Bisa (click here for youtube link)
15. Warna – Oh Ya
16. Dewa 19 – Satu Hati (click here for youtube link)
17. Gigi – Nirwana (click here for youtube link)
18. All 4 One – So Much In Love (click here for youtube link)
19. Kerispatih – Cuma Manusia (click here for youtube link)
20. Kahitna – Cerita Cinta
Most of them are cheesy… but it’s my choice people!
Posted by binsar on 07 Dec 2007 at 10:46 pm | Tagged as: Love
Taktik 3: Reverse Psychology
Taktik ini digunakan dengan meminjam istilah reverse psychology. Arti dari istilah ini adalah ketika kita mendorong seseorang untuk melakukan apa yang kita ingin dia lakukan dengan menyarankan arah sebaliknya. Contohnya adalah ketika kita ingin seseorang untuk melihat sesuatu, hal yang kita katakan justru adalah jangan lihat. Contoh mudah lainnya adalah ketika mengirim email dengan title ‘jangan buka’ maka kemungkinan besar orang akan membaca email itu. Dalam sebuah contoh mengenai reverse psychology di wikipedia, sebuah episode the simpons mengenai percakapan homer dengan otaknya sendiri ditampilkan di situ,
Homer’s Brain: Don’t you get it? You’ve gotta use reverse psychology.
Homer: That sounds too complicated.
Homer’s Brain: OK, don’t use reverse psychology
Homer: All right, I will!
Apa hubungannya dengan taktik mendekati perempuan? Melalui cara ini kita bisa mendekati seseorang dengan menyarankan mereka untuk tidak menyukai kita. Dalam percakapan normal anda akan mengatakan, “ah, kalo lo sih ga mungkin lah suka ama gw”, atau “kita ga mungkin lah pacaran”. Anda akan menanamkan sugesti bahwa dia tidak akan menyukai anda dengan harapan bahwa dia akan melakukan hal yang sebaliknya.
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Posted by binsar on 06 Dec 2007 at 12:16 am | Tagged as: Love
Taktik 2: Dekati Orang-orang Dekatnya!
Ciri utama dari jurus ini adalah mengenali sahabat, keluarga, atau orang yang dekat dengan sang perempuan untuk bisa lebih mengenalinya. Laki-laki akan mendekati dan berusaha menjadi teman dari sahabat sang perempuan dalam rangka mencari informasi mengenai incarannya sekaligus mempromosikan dirinya. Seringkali sang laki-laki justru terlihat lebih dekat dengan sahabat daripada incarannya. Tidak jarang sang laki-laki juga rela menaruh extra effort dalam hal ini terutama dalam rangka mentraktir sang sahabat.
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Posted by binsar on 04 Dec 2007 at 12:42 am | Tagged as: Article, Love
Have you ever kisse someone and felt really weird about it. Do you know that men and women have different agenda in kissing? I’ve read a very interesting article on kissing by Jocelyn Voo on CNN Website and I thought it might be useful for you all. Believe it or not, recent study shows that bad kissing can put a relationship to an end.
We can actually decide whether we are genetically compatible with our partner through the kiss. This is what Gordon Gallup, co-author of the study and professor of psychology at the State University of New York at Albany says, “At the moment of the kiss, there’s a very complicated exchange of information … that may tap into underlying evolved mechanisms…” further he adds, “A kiss can be a deal-breaker in terms of whether a relationship will flower or flounder, so to speak.” This means, kissing is a very complicated process of information exchange between the two and that could lead up to the decision of the future of the relationship.
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