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Hm… So I was right when called you as a “Calon Pendeta Pencari Cinta”, since you discuss about love more than other topics recently. Ha..ha..ha…
As a long distance lover, I cannot agree more with this post. However, enjoying our happiness here and now is also nice and exciting… hua..ha.h.a..
Well,,, semua kembali lagi ke pribadi masing-masing
sum times bisa aja sih LDR works, contohnya adalah sepupu saya,,, mereka LDR sudah di tahun ke 5 dan akhir tahun ini mereka bakalan nikah,,,
Jadi balik lagi ke nilai2 yang di anut masing2 orang (hallaahh macam PPKN aja niiihhh)
ya maksudnya kalo emang buat mereka perhatian lewat telpon, sms, ym atau apapun itu bisa mengakomodir kebutuhan mereka untuk tetap saling percaya ya oke2 aja kann
lain halnya dengan orang (contohnya saya) yang butuh kehadiran fisik,,, yang kaya tadi di bilang you can not hug him when you know that he’s in trouble or in need…
atau malah kebalikan ketika lo butuh seseorang untuk ada buat lo.
Kalau masalah tantangan, setiap hubungan pasti ada tantanganya masing2 toh?
Tetap semangat buat yang ber LDR ria… jangan di kira ketemu setiap hari itu enak hehehe
buat yng merasa tidak cocok ber LDR ria ya jangan di lakukan,,, karna sama saja mencari masalah…
buat yang belom pernah LDR tapi sok2 berkesimpulan nda kuat LDR seperti saya… yahh ga ada salahnya mencoba.. there’s always he first time for everything for everybody right?
LDR membuka kesempatan yg luas utk mempunyai domestic partner. trus jadinya hati mendua deh.
menarik nih penyajian artikelnya om binsar. koherensi antar artikelnya kuat
LDR..hmmmmm
actually, that i am now
it’s hard but everything can we do for love,isn’t is?? even distance separeted us.Yeahh sometimes i really need contack fysic when i was in the dificulty time ‘n i just tried to be tough,keep strong ‘n just pray for it.’N it was work i thoungt.so the point which i want to say here is “Everything we can do for love” even LDR sekalipun.So,success for LDR’s lover ok!!!!
Btw,artikel km belakangan ini ampir semua kena ke gw,km gak lagi nyindir gw khan Bang????hehehehehehe.
God Bless ‘n peace
arg..LDR. harusnya gw bisa berhasil nih. cm karna waktu itu pacar saya terlalu baik buat saya, jd harus dihentikan de…huhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhu…
why GOD why?????
This is a very powerful blog mehn!! It can’t be deeper than this. LDR is hard. Because you indeed have to rely on what the other is telling you. Sad but true.
Many of what you said it’s true, its a big challenge and test that will strengthen you and your partner, it made you go to another level. I’ve been in a LDR for 2,5 years, I’m thankful that we learned to emotionally close not physically, cos in the end what will make it last is if you can be comfy and talk anything with your partner for hours,,what do we do when we’re face to face anyway? mostly talk right?
for unmarried yet couple it’s very effective to protect ourselves from lust too hehehe..I know a couple who’s been together 7 years and doing LDR for 5 years, they’re getting married this year. feeling what they have to go through to make it work will always make them fight for their marriage to last forever – the negative thing is it is really really hard and painful sometimes, and you always need longer time than normal relationship to be ’sure’.
wah DIT,lu isi coment juga ttg blog ini hehehehehe..
huy everybody just for anounchemnt that “DIDIT juga pernah ngalamin LDR tapi gak berhasil”hahahahahahahaha
arm jongen……..
but relax bro,masih banyak stock Tuhan cewek cantik untuk loe!!!!!
tetep semangat dalam mencari cinta ok!!!I’ll always support u
wah… tengkyu untuk komen2nya yaaa..
Sisil… mungkin memang kamu harus coba dulu baru bisa bilang ga akan berhasil. tapi coba ama siapa juga yaa?? tapi cerita sukses saudaramu itu bagus juga ya…. sayang ga berhasil buat aku huuu
deon… lagi-lagi analisanya selalu tepat!
indri… kisah kita sama meski penyebabnya beda hahaha
anies, waduh kebetulan aja kali kena, soalnya aku kan ga tau ceritamu hahaha…
didit, kamu ama anis berdebat berdua aja tuh hahaha…
Naomy… you were sad a month ago when your boyfriend left back home. I wish you all the best girl! I am expecting a sweet ending between the two of you!
He..he..he..commentnya lucu2,
btw Jarak jauh..jarak dekat..keduanya ada plus minus nya,Up 2 u, ngak dosa kok, (bener kan P’ Pendeta?)Tergantung kepercayaan masing2, Sukses & Gagal (lewat jarak dekat or jauh) itu biasa dlm sebuah hubungan, Kalo jodoh ngak akan lari kemana walau di ujung bumi sekalipun,Makanya perlu bersyukur untuk BF/GF & anugrah cinta itu, karna dari sekian banyaknya Pria or wanita di seluruh dunia ini, Tuhan sediakan satu Pria/Wanita utk kamu, It’s Amazing,Hanya satu,makanya jg ngak boleh mendua,setialah.
Lagipula cara Tuhan mempertemukan pasangan utk tiap2 orang itu beda2 & unik,ngak smua orang sama, polanya beda2, ada yg ketemu dgn cara Ber-LDR Ria, ada yg ketemu krn salah telepon, krn berantem dulu,krn pesen tiket, ketemu di wedding temen,etc, pokoknya Tuhan ngak akan kehabisan cara utk mempertemukan setiap anak2nya, krn hewan aj di dlm bahtera Nuh berpasang-pasangan, apalagi kita manusia,dan Adam yg di Taman Eden sendirian, dia tidak jumpai yg sepadan dgn dia, wkt itu cuma ada binatang, Tuhan bisa sediakan dgn caraNya sendiri, Apalagi kita, Tuhan pasti sediakan yg terbaik utkmu & utkku…INTINYA : Kalo Jodoh ngak kan lari kemana…(biar beda keyakinan dlm cinta, tetep ngak boleh memojokkan yg lain,hargai keyakinan msg2, dan peace & love friend..)Gbu,
Binsar, Binsar, Binsar… good post but I did not have the patience to read it all. I read the first part and the conclusion. For those who are still fuling themselves and others LDR DOES NOT WORK…NO IT DOES NOT. Spare yourselves, your loved ones, friends, familly and other bloggers, LRD IS A WASTE OF TIME, money, emotoins, fun times, etc. Being with someone is hard enough do not add the distance to the game it is not worth it. Hey B. are you looking for someone in the radius of two zones thats about everyone in Amsterdam Centrum and Amstelveen (two zones from Uilenstade)? That is not much to ask at all. By the way the drums souded excellent today. Your sarcastic brother.
vera… coba denger lagu “oh ya” deh… itu kan kaya ini banget… “memang benar apa kata pepatah, kalo jodoh tak lari kemana… duhai kekasihku” hehehe
Szaszafraz! See, that’s why you need to read what’s in the article itself broer hahaha… Of course you are free to express your own opinion of … and 2 zones means a lot broer, what if I take central station as the main zone, then I can have Amsterdam at my disposal toch!!!! hahaha
ha..ha.. ha.that’s right bin (he..he..,gitchu D)
hi…
wow, what a great post! I got this reference from my cousin di2t. I am doing LDR now. Still hope it’ll work well.
de di2t, thanks ya for the info, for binsar, keren banget! TOP abis hehe
waduh enno… sukses untuk LDR nya yaaa!